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Should I use a dating app?

Even though dating apps are a popular method to meet people these days, many individuals still prefer to meet love possibilities in person for the first time.

According to 2017 research, 61 percent of Americans aged 18-29 and 44 percent of Americans aged 30-59 are now using or have used dating apps. According to a 2018 poll, over 84 percent of millennials would prefer to find love “in real life” rather than online.

On a general level, users of online dating sites are more likely to rate their whole experience as good than unfavorable. Furthermore, most online daters said it was at least relatively simple to discover physically appealing people, shared the same interests or appeared to be someone they would like to meet in person.

However, individuals also agree on some of the drawbacks of online dating. Seven out of ten online daters feel it is quite typical for people who use these platforms to lie in order to look more attractive.

The downside of using dating apps

With the obvious benefits of online dating sites come certain warnings that individuals should be aware of. The data show that, despite a large number of potential matches, finding someone is difficult.

As a result, people must expect to either make or receive requests for connections that are unlikely to succeed. This rejection can be difficult, especially for people who are easily offended.

With such a vast pool of prospective matches, determining trade-offs between which potential partners to pursue and which to avoid becomes increasingly difficult. Since individuals unduly objectify possibilities or get overwhelmed by choice, the huge pool may even hinder success.

It's challenging to create an accurate first impression of a possible date because the initial image people have of them is based on photographs and a description. We base a lot of our early impressions of individuals on how they speak and interact with others — we judge people based on a lot of non-verbal behavior.

People may also deceive or provide false impressions of themselves more easily in the internet realm. Although this may happen when meeting individuals in person, it might be more difficult to identify when assessing a match online.

Furthermore, the algorithms that are used to anticipate potential matches aren't necessarily founded on sound assumptions. Questionnaire-based surveys can be problematic since people do not always have a clear understanding of themselves, and some actively misrepresent themselves.


When a match is formed, it may be advisable to avoid chatting or texting for an extended length of time. Instead, if you want to pursue a connection, call, or video chat with them to get a greater feel of who they are and how well you communicate, as well as to build a more meaningful connection early on.

Finally, the online dating environment does not rule out the possibility of meeting people through more traditional ways. People used to meet their spouses on a night out, at work, or via shared ties like family and friends before the internet dating boom.

Finding a match in the actual world does not rely on algorithms, profiles, or combing through a list of potential matches, as it does in the virtual world. So keep yourself engaged in the actual world as well.

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